婚戀篇 — The Marriage System (盲派婚戀篇)
Marriage is what most clients actually come to ask about, and the 为心易学 course gives it six lessons — the longest applied sequence after the disaster series. Everything rests on one object, the 配偶星 (spouse star), and one verb, contact between the star and one's 體.
Finding the Spouse Star 找配偶星
The search runs in order. First by 陰陽: a cold chart (metal-water heavy) takes its lone warming fire as the spouse star — the thing it craves; a hot chart takes its lone metal or water. Otherwise by ten god: 財 for a man, 官殺 for a woman — with 財 read as lasting affection and 殺 as the one-night kind (for a woman, though, 殺 is simply her partner). Search the palaces in sequence — seat (夫妻宮) → hour → year/month → hidden stems → luck pillar — and a star found only in the luck pillar marks a thin, late-arriving affinity. The 體 that must contact it is the 祿, the seat, or the 食傷 (read as the body and the reproductive faculty).
Early or Late 早婚晚婚
Position plus contact dates the first romance. A spouse star in the year touched by one's 祿 reads as early love, typically before 18. A star in year/month that is clashed or struck by the month or the seat 'cannot pass the month gate' — it cannot enter the home — reading as a failed early romance or enforced late marriage; forced through anyway, it divorces soon. A star comfortably at the seat or hour reads as ordinary-to-late marriage, always cross-checked against the luck pillars and years.
Counting Marriages 婚戀次數
The core technique, stated flatly: the number of times one's 體 contacts the 財官 star is the number of marriages or serious romances. Contact is counted across 祿, seat, and 食傷; and the star's shares are counted through the hidden stems with 寻根基/份額 — a star carrying three people's shares is three romances. The course's worked charts read three-marriage fates directly off a star rooted in three places, and distinguish whose affair it was by which side's force dominates the contact.
The Marriage-Timing Algorithm 結婚應期
The series' centrepiece — a four-step flowchart, calibrated to the modern marriage age (the search begins in the post-23 luck pillar):
- Fix the spouse star (by the 陰陽-then-ten-god method above).
- Confirm both parties can 立得住 (stand up). If the Day Master cannot, the marriage waits for a 印比根 luck pillar or year that lets it stand; if the spouse star cannot, wait for its 印比根; if neither can, whichever the luck pillar reinforces first.
- Check the blocking patterns. A man with 劫財見財 needs an 官 luck pillar or year to control the 劫財 before the 財 can enter the home; a woman with 傷官見官 needs an 印 to discipline the 傷官 before the officer can enter.
- Run the normal flow. When a 印 luck pillar is running, find the year the star arrives; when a star luck pillar is running, find the year the 印 arrives. 印 stands for the house, the certificate, the family's blessing; the star is the person. 印 + star = a blessed marriage; star without 印 = the unblessed 裸婚. A man's 印/財/食傷 pillars favour marrying (he avoids 劫財); a woman's 印/官 favour it (she avoids 食傷/比劫).
The founder rates the whole flow at roughly 80% accuracy and insists it is learned by working many charts, not memorised.
Marital Calamity and the Divorce Date 婚災與離婚應期
婚災 covers both marital breakdown and a spouse's illness or death — every form of 生離死別. Read the star (combined away by another's 體 = the partner taken, a divorce signal; the count of borrowing 體 = the count of threats) and the palace (a struck seat with an intact star still reads 100% calamity — divorce, or the spouse's bodily harm; a star struck to death reads 非死即離). The course tabulates divorce 應期 triggers: 財坏印 on a weak 用印 chart (the 印/財-meeting year); a weak-but-not-following Day Master overwhelmed by 財官 (the year the Day Master gains a root and 'no longer needs' the partner); 財官 combining/dissolving the 印 (the 財/印 pillar); 劫財見財 (feared when the 劫財 gains a root or strengthens); and a 財 with two roots (the year it surfaces on the stems or strikes a root).
Chart Compatibility 八字合婚
The traditional pairing read, graded by pillar. Year and month contribute via 納音 and stem element (generating or same = harmonious, controlling = poor) at roughly 20% each. The day pillar is decisive: 天合地合 reads ~50% harmony, 天生地生 is good, 天剋地剋 is the worst pairing — if the day pillars do not agree, no other agreement rescues the match. Supplementary checks: the partner's 坐支 against one's zodiac (a clash is bad), identical day-pillar characters (harmonious), seat 六合/三合/暗合 (smooth). The hour pillar (old age) is minor — a couple who cannot pass the earlier pillars never reaches it. The course overlays the school's own 陰陽 complementarity (a hot-chart person pairs well with a cold-chart person) and closes with the honest caveat that compatibility is not destiny — 緣分 decides whether two well-matched charts ever meet.
桃花 — Romance Fortune or Romance Disaster 桃花篇
The course scopes 桃花 narrowly as post-marriage straying. The base signal: a home 財官 running out to year/month. Self-affair (your 財官 reaching year/month and contacting it, dated to that year) versus partner-affair (your 財官 combined away by an outsider, dated to the combining year). The two outcomes: 桃花運 — 身旺用財 with the useful 財 in year/month, so wealth and romance arrive together; versus 桃花劫 — 身弱用財, where the same romance brings 破財 and disorder. Two further types: 露水桃花 (the one-night kind: a man reading his star as 官, a woman reading hers as 財) and 滾浪桃花 (chaotic private life: a year/month 祿 combined by 食傷/官/財, or one's 食傷 reaching outside 財官). Divorce-prone signatures: the star living only outside the home (easily combined away); a 財 化盡/無根無氣 (早死即早離); a needed star surfacing from outside. The lesson closes on consultation ethics the founder takes seriously — do not volunteer an affair reading unless the client asks, because the knowledge itself becomes a burden on them. (Source: 为心易学 盲派八字課程 第五十九至六十四課 — 婚戀篇 「早婚晚婚」、「婚戀次數」、「結婚應期」、「婚災離婚應期」、「八字合婚」、「桃花篇」)